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Jul 2022
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Selfish Summer Strategies #6: Bust out o...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

Summer is a tricky season, isn't it? On the one hand we love the weather, vacations and everything that comes with it. On the other hand, we are dealing with swimsuits, exposing more of our bodies, and the inevitable comparison that comes with it. 

Comparison sucks because it keeps you focused on what you don't like about yourself and this is NOT the vibe anymore! I want you to bust out of 'comparison-itis' so you can enjoy your summer, love yourself more, and wear the shorts! 

I'm giving you my top 6 strategies to stop comparing and start accepting and loving yourself instead! 

I'm also giving you my one Secret Super Power Strategy that's going to change everything for you when it comes to comparing yourself to others! 

Email me with your burning questions! 

valerie@valeriejonescoach.com

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