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Aug 2022
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The TOP QUESTIONS A Narcissist Simply CA...

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About this episode

There are some statistics that report 1 in 4 women have experienced severe physical violence by an intimate partner, while other stats report more than 40% of women in emotionally abusive relationships.

When you think of dating and being in a relationship with a romantic partner, Dr. Ramani reminds us in this episode that safety should be a high priority and concern. Neglecting the importance of safety and disregarding red flags that she and Lisa discuss in this episode can easily lead to patterns and behaviors that are unwanted, unsafe, and painful to escape with time.

Dr. Ramani Durvasula is a repeat guest and favorite on Women of Impact. She’s a clinical psychologist and expert in narcissistic traits and behaviors.

This conversation is about breaking the silence and helping women to reclaim the power we’ve lost and handed over to the wrong people in our lives.

“Evil enters like a needle and spreads like an oak tree” -Dr. Ramani

Check out Dr. Ramani’s new podcast, Navigating Narcissism: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/navigating-narcissism-with-dr-ramani/id1629909313

Take a look at Dr. Ramani’s Monthly Healing Program: https://doctor-ramani.teachable.com/p/taking-yourself-back-healing-from-narcissistic-antagonistic-relationships


SHOW NOTES:

0:00 | Introduction to Dr. Ramani

0:07 | Questions That Raise Red Flags

6:54 | Are They Really Interested?

10:02 | Know Your Personal Red Flags

16:16 | How Narcissists Test Easy Targets

19:28 | Narcissistic Love Is This…

28:14 | Narcissists Don’t Support Your Success

35:24 | A Relationship Based in Fear

39:30 | Being Crushed by Narcissists

45:25 | Losing “Friends” to Narcissistic Lies

52:38 | Recognize the Isolation Game

56:33 | How to End A Narcissistic Relationship

1:00:03 | Who Gets Sucked In By Narcissists?

1:03:44 | Narcissistic Family Systems

1:07:18 | Helping Someone in Narcissistic Relationship

1:16:17 | What Works For Your Dating Life?

1:23:07 | Stop Giving Your Power Away!


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