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Aug 2022
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Ep #209: Becoming Yourself

KIRSTIN SARFDE
About this episode

When you binge and overeat, you’re not being yourself. You’re also not being yourself when you do the things that lead you to a binge or overeat. You might want to change this quickly to become who you want to be but, you might be missing a very important step.

 

In this episode, I’m talking about why you’re not allowing yourself to be yourself and why it’s so important to. I’ll also explain how you’re going to become who you want to become. Listen in to find out how.

 

Interested in working with me? Go to http://www.coachkir.com/group to get all the information you need!

 

Find show notes and more information at https://coachkir.com/209

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