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Jul 2022
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179 | Secret Ponytail Signals: Moonlight...

Wyoh Lee
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What is a 24/7 dynamic like? Moonlight (26 Korean-American bisexual cis f, she is collared in a committed 24/7 DD/lg sub dynamic of 3-ish years) has “done a little bit of it all” and while her current wise self wishes there had been more waiting and growth, she shares how her early experiences, even the tough ones, helped her figure out so much about what she likes, needs, and doesn’t want. She grew up in the conservative-ish South, and had awkward-if-supportive experiences with adults she could trust and turn to if needed. Moonlight talks about feigning stomachaches to go to the bathroom to masturbate, an 8th-grade drug-induced first, a second experience in 9th grade with two girlfriends at a sleepover, her rocky, ultimately abusive first relationship which she escaped from, FetLife safety advice, how turned on she got at her first big sex party (at a hotel!), and seeing intense impact play in real life turned her on. She also tells us about celebrating her 22nd birthday topless in public for the first time and experiencing both impact and fireplay, and then takes us into what it’s like to be in her 24/7 dynamic: the distinctions between her submissive and little self, the gushy intensely beautiful love she has with her partner, how their dynamic is flexible to shift into whatever they need in a given period of their life, and how they handle consent and communication when her desire is to “dissolve her no’s” with someone she utterly trusts. We also get to learn their secret meaning of ponytails and certain other clothing items, talks about wanting to explore both sensory deprivation and the dominant parts of herself, and she and Wyoh bond over the delicious ease that kink can offer when explicit agreements are in place.


 

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