How can we guide vs. control our kids? Is there really a difference?

We want our kids to be independent and make their own decisions, but there are some times in life when they have to do what we ask them to do.

So, where’s the balance?

Joining me for this conversation is Dr. Siggie Cohen.

Dr. Siggie is known as the "child whisperer" for her unparalleled depth of insight in working with children of all ages. For more than 35 years she has worked with thousands of children and families across the US and abroad, first as a teacher and then as a professor and counselor. Her method provides parents with practical tools and scripts to feel more empowered and less guilty. She is also a mother of 3 and runs a private practice in Los Angeles.

Listen in as we talk about:

[2:30] The difference between controlling and guiding our kids
[5:30] How to approach situations with a guiding vs. controlling way
[9:55] The role adults play in dealing with difficult kids
[14:25] Why parents demand a certain amount of respect and control
[17:10] How to be firm without getting angry
[25:20] Being firm and the impact to kids’ mental health

Notes from Natalie:

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