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Jul 2022
1h 8m

40. How you get off on nitpicking your p...

NATALIE KENNEDY
About this episode
In this dark, hysterical episode, my BFF/fellow relationship anxiety alchemist (and dance/movement therapist) Chelsea Joy Horton and I share the shadow side of nitpicking and the pleasure we might derive out of it if we were to become more conscious about it.
Get ready to (maybe) get triggered and laugh your ass off as we discuss our outrageous fantasies that we get off to in real life.
 
Definitely DON'T go follow Chelsea over at @healing.embodied on Instagram or www.healingembodied.com. It's terrible and full of wisdom you definitely don't want. And definitely DON'T go subscribe to her new podcast either.
 
Also if you loved this episode you will definitely hate my upcoming womens' retreat in California that is open for enrollment here: https://www.anxiouslovecoach.com/aliveness-from-within... 
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