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Feb 2024
45m 16s

4 Ways To Self Love

Violet Benson
About this episode

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves. 

And remember, never let a person show you twice that they don’t want you. If they want you in their life, they’ll treat you with kindness and love. If they want you to be part of their journey, they will want to spend their time with you and will always appreciate spending time with you. When they love you for who you are, you will never have to change. You will be loved just as you are, flaws and imperfections included.


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What to Listen For:

  • 00:00 Introduction
  • 02:37 Dating the male version of me
  • 06:55 Set boundaries for yourself
  • 10:19 Be self-aware
  • 17:04 Know who you are
  • 23:49 Change your perspective
  • 35:00 My love letter to you


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