Sep 29

Encore: S03 Ep 10 - Kayla’s Toxic Relationship

This week we’re in session with Kayla, who’s engaged to a wonderful man but still carries scars from a disturbing relationship she had years ago that is affecting her ability to get close with her fiance. If you have a dilemma you’d like to discuss with us—big or small—email us a ... Show More

1h 6m

Sep 22

Encore: S03 Ep 9 - Sandra and Kim’s Family Secret

This week we’re in session with sisters Sandra and Kim, who discover a family secret that their parents held for sixty years. We help them to process the news and communicate with their mother, who still feels shame and resistance around sharing the truth. If you have a dilemma y ... Show More

1h 14m

Sep 15

Diane’s Infertility Struggles One Year Later

This week we’re checking in with Diane, who came to us while struggling with the emotional fallout from pregnancy loss, to hear how she’s doing one year later. If you have a dilemma you’d like to discuss with us—big or small—email us at LoriAndGuy@iHeartMedia.com. Follow us both ... Show More

16m 5s

Jul 2024

Ep. 249 - What happens if I don't get over my ex?

If you're terrified you'll never get over your ex, you've got to listen to today's episode. Braveheart Summer and Breakup Coach Dorothy talk about Summer's journey to being over her ex and what she found to be even more important than getting over her ex. If this is the worst ... Show More

56m 14s

Aug 2025

Fear of Intimacy

This episode unpacks the fear of intimacy—why closeness can feel good yet terrifying at the same time. Colter, Cayla, and Lauren explore how fear of intimacy shows up in subtle and obvious ways, from ghosting and over-picking flaws to struggling with vulnerability in relationship ... Show More

52m 16s

Sep 2024

20. The Fears of Leaving

It took me over a year to leave. This episode focuses on normalizing the fears of leaving, doubting yourself after leaving, but why I'm thankful I left. This is not to shame anyone who stays <3 Follow along for more resourcesTikTokInstagramP*rn addiction recovery resource: Click ... Show More

50m 15s

Jan 2024

Is It Just Me: Holophobia

On this week's IIJM, the girls continue their exploration of intimate things, discuss phobias and the size of the ocean... Follow us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/shouldideletethat/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@shouldideletethat</a></ ... Show More

23m 58s

Jun 2023

EP 25 my Hoyoo cut me out of her life

Hi angels,Welcome back to the oversharers podcast <3333This week we discuss a scenario from one of our listeners who is confused if a guy is into her or simply leading her on. The second scenario is about a woman who is struggling with a difficult relationship with her mum. She s ... Show More

46m 1s

Mar 2019

Why are we scared to put ourselves out there?

In this episode, we discuss why we were (once) scared to put ourselves out there and how we overcame that fear. Send us your thoughts — hi@notoverthinking.com! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-m ... Show More

43m 48s

Oct 2025

Help, I'm Having Doubts About My Partner!

It's just us this week and we're breaking down a listener email about the relatable crisis of having doubts about your long-term partner. We discuss so many aspects of relationships and marriages -- marrying young (and what IS the optimal age to say I Do), not growing in the same ... Show More

1h 19m

Apr 2021

How to get over an Ex

On this week’s episode we talk through the very important topics of:Bum hole maintenance Fi’s complete wobble about Mr. HandcuffsA letter from a reader that broke our hearts, we want to hug you so much!How to get over an ex and the feeling you get once you get thereAnd a Tinder B ... Show More

47m 18s

Aug 2023

Ep. 203 - When all the signs point to your ex

Breakup Coach Dorothy interviews her client Caitlyn, about her journey from struggling to take up space in her relationship, dealing with anxious attachment and breakup regrets, thinking they're meant to be, to being over her ex. Listen in to learn more about her journey. ... Show More

42m 3s

Encore: Doug’s Fear of Intimacy One Year...