In this episode of "It's Not Me, It's You," John and Vanessa discuss what loving with your past looks like and how important it is to love without your past in your current relationship.
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Still Stuck on Your Ex | This is Why
Closure isn’t a door you wait to have slammed shut - it’s a bridge you build. In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim breaks the biggest “closure” myths and shows you how to move forward without an apology, a perfect explanation, or one last text. If you’ve felt stuck in rel ... Show More
14m 49s
Aug 18
From Nauseous Nights to Perfect Mornings | Life in Costa Rica
In this episode, licensed therapist John Kim takes you inside his personal journey of building a new life in Costa Rica - the highs, the lows, and the unexpected lessons about presence, clarity, and decision-making. From nausea-inducing dirt roads to perfect mornings surfing in C ... Show More
15m 12s
Jul 2024
Why There’s No Such thing As the Right Person at the Wrong Time & Why Your Ex Was Never The One
Do you believe in "right person, wrong time"? Do you have realistic expectations about dating? Today, Jay will discuss the popular notion of the "right person at the wrong time." He explains that this idea often stems from nostalgia, which can distort our memories by emphasizing ... Show More
24m 50s
Dec 2024
Episode 684: Your Ex Doesn't Care NOW, But They WILL Care Later
In order for your ex to break up with you, their interest level had to go below 50%. However, that doesn't mean it won't go back up after the breakup. Dating/relationship expert Lucia shares why even though you ex doesn't care about you now, they will care later.
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10m 1s
Jan 2025
Il m’a trompée et n'a pas regretté
Que ce soit en amour, en amitié ou en famille, les relations toxiques sont bien plus courantes qu'on ne le croit... J'en ai moi-même vécues dans ces 3 circonstances. Pour en parler plus en profondeur et avoir un autre prisme, j'ai invité Laureen, ma maquilleuse et amie, qui a véc ... Show More
49m 59s