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Jan 2019
49m 58s

The Four Tendencies (Gretchen Rubin)

Melissa Guller
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There’s no magic, one-size-fits-all answer for building a happier, healthier, more productive life. In her book, The Four Tendencies, Gretchen Rubin reveals the one simple question that will transform what you do at home, at work, and in life.

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