Episode 555: Why You Shouldn't Be Mad At...

If your ex hasn't reached out, you might be accidentally making it easier for them to stay silent.In this episode, I explain the mistakes that can stop an ex from contacting you - even when they miss you, think about you or have thought about reaching out.Get coaching!Download Si ... Show More

Want to make your avoidant ex start worrying and become anxious about losing you? In this episode, I'll give you specific tricks, along with real client examples, designed to take away the certainty that you'll always be there waiting for them.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: ... Show More

There's one emotion that can change the way your ex sees the breakup, and make them question whether walking away was a mistake.In this episode, I explain how this emotion develops in an avoidant and what to look for once they reach out to you.Get coaching!Download Silenzio App: ... Show More

In today's solo episode I'm talking about what happens when you given in to those obsessions and don't hold your tongue when it comes to your ex. Whether you called them a dozen times in a row, sent a message you wish you hadn't, said something mean during the breakup, or whateve ... Show More

In this episode I talk about what if your break up was out of a relationship that was great. You can't think of anything wrong with the relationship or your ex so you can't get angry and it doesn't make sense why you should let go. I go over how you can start moving through the b ... Show More

<p>In today's episode learn what you can do to feel better when you feel like your ex was everything you ever wanted. Through practical exercises and insightful anecdotes, discover the importance of separating fact from fiction post-breakup, and learn how relying on data over dra ... Show More

<p>In this episode, the Breakup Coach Dorothy addresses the complex emotions that follow a breakup when you're the one who initiated it. She dives into the feelings of doubt and regret that can arise and outlines how to release regret and make decisions from calm clarity. Whether ... Show More

In today's solo episode I'm talking about whether you should let your ex know the impact the breakup has had on you. We talk about whether or not you're letting your ex "get away" with something or getting away with hurting you because you stay silent and don't tell them your hur ... Show More

Forgiveness is SUCH an important part of break up recovery. There is a time and a place to be angry and express that anger about your ex, but there needs to be a point where we look at those feelings from a different perspective so we can forgive and let go. In this episode I tal ... Show More

<p>In this tender and eye-opening session, Christine coaches Lucia through the heartbreak and confusion of a breakup she now regrets. While the relationship was loving and emotionally safe, differences in values, lifestyle, and follow-through led to a mutual decision to part ways ... Show More

This is the first episode I am covering listener advice. A woman submitted her break up story using my anonymous form and today's episode is dedicated to that. We talk about how to stop beating yourself up, emotions being totally valid, the power of crying, and how important it i ... Show More