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Aug 2020
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57 - Don't Suppress Desire

Anthony De Mello/The DeMello Spirituality Center
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Do not suppress desire, because then you would become lifeless. You’d be without energy and that would be terrible. Desire in the healthy sense of the word is energy, and the more energy we have, the better. But don’t suppress desire, understand it. Understand it. Don’t seek to fulfill desire so much as to understand desire.  Know your preferences. When you ... Show More
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