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Nov 2020
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#38 - On Marital Intimacy and Sex (Part ...

Waheed Jensen
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*General trigger warning: Episode involves discussion of intimacy and sexual relations with graphic details. This episode is flagged for explicit content.*

This is part I of a 2-episode series on marital intimacy and sexual relations, answering frequently asked questions on these topics, with a focus on men and women experiencing same-sex attractions. Joining me in both episodes is sex therapist Dr. Rana Khaled, MD/PhD.

In this episode, we discuss challenges to intimacy and sexual relations in general, as well as those involving men and women dealing with same-sex attractions. We explore sexual relations beginning with points of etiquette and preparations, as well as foreplay, intercourse, and after play. Special emphasis is given to proper communication and building emotional intimacy as well.

How is being intimate with one's spouse an act of worship? What are some of the challenges faced by married couples in the domain of intimacy and sex? How can one deal with performance anxieties, particularly on the wedding night? How does one prepare for sex, physically and psychologically, and what do foreplay, intercourse, and after play include? How do we make sure each partner achieves sexual satisfaction? These and other questions are explored in this episode.

Recommended books on marital relations, intimacy and sex:
- The Guide to Getting It On
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Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It
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Islamic Guide to Sexual Relations
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Like a Garment: Intimacy in Islam
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تحرير المرأة في عصر الرسالة - الجزء السادس

Dr. Rana Khaled's Twitter handle: @drranakhaled

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