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Jun 2022
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160. Why You Desire A Relationship but A...

Beatrice Kamau
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There you are, hoping, wishing, praying for real and lasting love- an honest-to-goodness relationship…so why the heck are you continually settling for a situationship? You know what I'm talking about, right?

The situationship- the kind of dating when the guy says stuff like "seeing where it's going, keeping it casual, just hanging out" and you pretend to be cool with it as your soul dies a little more and your doubt climbs, because can you actually change his mind? No, probably not. So on this episode, let's figure out:

  • Why we keep repeating this pattern
  • How to break it

You might feel powerless right now- after all how much control do you have over all the terrible men out there just waiting to screw you over…but the thing is, most of them aren't. And you have a lot more control than you think you do because a lot of this work needs to come from you. Let me help you get started.

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