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Aug 2020
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Jealousy in a Relationship: Is It Ever G...

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
About this episode

Today’s caller wants to know if there’s such a thing as good jealousy in a relationship vs. unhealthy jealousy – and if so, how do you know the difference?

Welcome to SEASON 5 of the Love + Relationships Podcast!! I’m so excited about this new look, and these brand new episodes!

Dealing With Jealousy in a Relationship

If you’ve ever struggled with jealousy in a relationship, then you don’t want to miss this episode because I’m talking through:

  • What jealousy is.
  • Two reasons why you might be feeling it. 
  • How to know if there’s an underlying problem in the relationship.
  • How to know if the underlying problem is something inside of you.
  • How to deal with jealousy in the relationship.

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MORE BOOKS BY DEBRA

Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life.

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on FacebookInstagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!


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