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Mar 2021
15m 13s

How Do I Get Over Someone I Was NEVER Wi...

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com
About this episode

How do you get over someone you were never with? Isn’t it crazy you can get so stuck on someone you were never in a serious relationship with?

But it’s for real, and it can happen. Our minds and hearts are powerful, and we can create connections with people we were never really connected to, to begin with!

Today’s caller wants to know how she can get over someone she was never really with. What’s the mental work that it takes to get to a healthier place? Are there practical steps?

The answer is YES. And we’re talking about it on today’s episode!

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DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season and Are You Really OK?. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today!

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