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Mar 2022
19m 9s

Ep. 23 - I know WHY I'm stuck, but WHAT ...

Valerie Jones
About this episode

You've read all the self help books. Maybe you've gone to therapy. You have a good understanding of why you struggle in certain areas or find yourself in patterns and limiting experiences. 

Now what the hell do you do about it? 

I'm breaking down what I call, 'the work', and what it really requires to achieve your goals and dreams, and finally be free of what holds you back. 

Ready to do the work? 

Book a consultation with me to discuss working together! 

valerie@valeriejonescoach.com

 

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