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Jul 2021
29m 59s

Stressful Conversations. Addressing the ...

Martin Richards and Chris White
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In this episode, one of our expert hostage negotiators describes how they calmed an armed criminal trapped in a bank with a hostage. When dealing with incidents of this nature it is critical to reduce the stress of the person that the negotiators are engaging with. These techniques apply equally to any stressful conversations, where there is a threat to a ... Show More
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