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May 2022
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372 - Needs, Desires, Boundaries, and Mo...

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This week, we're discussing the differences between needs, wants, expectations, boundaries, rules, agreements, and how these terms tend to be often used interchangeably, as well as how these terms affect our communication in relationships. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.com/join. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can als ... Show More
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