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May 2022
28m 10s

5: Not if they loved me too.

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The question on everyone’s mind: Is it possible to be in love with more than one person at the same time? Sex therapist and best-selling author Dr. Ian Kerner and Kinsey Institute research fellow and podcast host Dr. Justin Lehmiller share their expertise when it comes to the complications of loving more than one person at a time. Dr. C. Sue Carter teaches us what we have in common with prairie voles. And Maggie shares a story about the time she was in love with two people and still wound up being the jealous maniac.
Dr. C. Sue Carter
https://kinseyinstitute.org/about/profiles/cscarter.php
Dr. Ian Kerner
https://www.iankerner.com/
Dr. Ian Kerner’s best-selling book, She Comes First
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0060538260/
Dr. Justin Lehmiller
https://www.sexandpsychology.com
https://open.spotify.com/show/6DCIGjOUaenoKdY71N7NqI

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