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Jan 2022
1h 7m

Casey Tanner & Your Queer Relationship Q...

Ashley Gavin & Studio71
About this episode

Fan-favorite Casey Tanner, AASECT, is a Queer Sex Therapist and founder of The Expansive Group, a queer-affirming therapy group that provides consultation and clinical work to individuals and institutions alike. But, today she is BACK in the apartment to answer questions and drive Ashley crazy. We discuss the complexities of queer identity, unpacking trauma, and why Ashley can’t stop simping. Ashley just wants her book back. Kate watches porn for the first time.


You can find Casey on:

IG: @queersextherapy, 

And you can learn more about her practice, as well as find LGBTQ counseling and gender therapy, on her organization’s website: https://www.theexpansivegroup.com/


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