We're reunited in NYC (!!!) and discussing gay sex, rebranding scissoring, and unpacking the "ho phase" with comedian and friend Ashley Gavin. She tells us about getting out in the dating scene after years of long-term relationships, her experience as a "flipper" and dating straight women, challenges of meeting not-so-gay-friendly families, coming out strugg ... Show More
Oct 29
The Snack: Gay Halloween, Nobody Wants This, and Ombre D*ck
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Best (and most toxic) celeb costumes so far Top 10 pop culture costumes of the year Best Gay Halloween tweets Our review of Nobody Wants This S3 Love is Blind latest opinions Wicker ... Show More
1 h
Oct 22
The Snack: You Can See Everything, Love is Blind, and Press Secretary Picks
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Katie Zacharia’s record-breaking press secretary stint White House walking back execution live stream Val Chmerkovskiy suspended from Dancing With the Stars TV news and reviews: Girl ... Show More
1h 7m
Oct 19
Midterms, Media, and Mental Health with Jon Favreau
The midterms are approaching, so we brought in one of our favorite political podcasters/voices of reason, Jon Favreau of Pod Save America, to chat with Ashley. They chat about what’s at stake in this election, which party votes more and why, races to watch/donate to, actual chang ... Show More
1h 35m
Mar 2020
An Introduction to Gay Sex
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too.
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer encounters in this po ... Show More
3m 19s
May 2022
Maddie Wiener Needs a Peg-Leg Up for Gay Dating
Maddie Wiener is an amazing queer stand-up comedian that’s hot on the rise, with showcases on Comedy Central, SiriusXM, and Just for Laughs' “New Faces,” but today she’s in the apartment for some gay sex-ed. We discuss discovering your queer identity later in life, the insecuriti ... Show More
1h 7m
May 2022
Where Breanne Williamson Bangs in Vegas Stays in Vegas
Fan-favorite Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain), hilarious queer actor/writer/content creator, finally returns to the apartment for another “bre-peat episode” of sexy times and good vibes. We discuss getting romantic in ol’ Las Vegas, social blunders coming out of the pandemic, a ... Show More
1h 10m
Jun 2019
26 We're Having Gay Sex (Emma Willmann, Jade Catta-Preta, & Ashley Gavin)
...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex) chat girl on g ... Show More
1h 11m
Feb 2023
Jess Henderson Curses You (With Gratitude) | We’re Having Gay Sex Podcast #157
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Jess Henderson is a awe-inspiring comedian, actor, and writer who is manifesting stardom into reality, but today they’re m ... Show More
1h 7m
Nov 2022
Calvin Cato Gets a Mobile Home Handy
Calvin Cato is a wonderful stand-up comedian who was named one of Time Out NY’s “Queer Comics of Color to Watch Out For,” but today he’s in the apartment to be named the gay sex king! We discuss having sex with van-lifers, banging in international waters, and the best methods to ... Show More
1h 8m
Oct 2022
Bailey Pope Will Stage-Manage Your Orgy
Bailey Pope is an absolutely killer comedian and trans woman who performs across the US, but today she’s in the apartment to perform some oral on the crew! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener joins us once again, this time as our PERMANANT co-host. We discuss coming out as tran ... Show More
1h 4m
<p><span>***CONTENT WARNING: Mentions of discrimination towards gay people, hate speech, depression, suicide.***</span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alizakelly/" rel="nofollow">Aliza Kelly</a> connects with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/?hl=en" rel="nofol ... Show More
