We're reunited in NYC (!!!) and discussing gay sex, rebranding scissoring, and unpacking the "ho phase" with comedian and friend Ashley Gavin. She tells us about getting out in the dating scene after years of long-term relationships, her experience as a "flipper" and dating straight women, challenges of meeting not-so-gay-friendly families, coming out strugg ... Show More
Jul 27
Stassi Schroeder on Her Reality TV Comeback, Working with Her Husband, and Mom Guilt
We are so excited to have sat down with Stassi Schroeder ahead of her new show, House of Stassi, to get candid about her reality TV comeback, this show’s contrast from anything she’s done before, why she didn’t edit out the “bad parts,” working with her husband, and what she’s mo ... Show More
1h 14m
Jul 20
You Can Fix a Dog but You Can’t Fix a Man feat. Isabel Klee
We loved our conversation with Isabel Klee (aka @SimonSits) about dogs, boys, and coming of age in New York City. The #1 NYT bestselling author shares her stories of looking for love in her 20s before she met her fiancé, the dogs she fostered along the way, and why you can fix a ... Show More
1h 26m
Jul 16
The Snack: Poop Girl Summer, Jay-Z30, and a Political Plot Twist
Welcome back to The Snack – a lighter serving of Girls Gotta Eat. This week, we’re talking about: Ashley’s wavy vs. curly hair debate Diarrhea outbreak in 31 states and counting Sh*t Shoes to help you poop better Jack Antonoff and Margaret Qualley split Taylor and Travis got a do ... Show More
57m 40s
Mar 2020
An Introduction to Gay Sex
Enjoy a preview of what's to come on WE'RE HAVING GAY SEX, and yes, straight people are welcome too.
After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer encounters in this po ... Show More
3m 19s
May 2022
Maddie Wiener Needs a Peg-Leg Up for Gay Dating
Maddie Wiener is an amazing queer stand-up comedian that’s hot on the rise, with showcases on Comedy Central, SiriusXM, and Just for Laughs' “New Faces,” but today she’s in the apartment for some gay sex-ed. We discuss discovering your queer identity later in life, the insecuriti ... Show More
1h 7m
May 2022
Where Breanne Williamson Bangs in Vegas Stays in Vegas
Fan-favorite Breanne Williamson (I Can Explain), hilarious queer actor/writer/content creator, finally returns to the apartment for another “bre-peat episode” of sexy times and good vibes. We discuss getting romantic in ol’ Las Vegas, social blunders coming out of the pandemic, a ... Show More
1h 10m
Jun 2019
26 We're Having Gay Sex (Emma Willmann, Jade Catta-Preta, & Ashley Gavin)
...is the name of one of our guest's new podcast AND what we are doing on this episode! Remy and comedians/actors Emma Willmann (Crazy Ex Girlfriend/ Inside The Closet Podcast), Jade Catta-Preta (MTV's Ladylike and GirlCode), and Ashley Gavin (We're Having Gay Sex) chat girl on g ... Show More
1h 11m
Feb 2023
Jess Henderson Curses You (With Gratitude) | We’re Having Gay Sex Podcast #157
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Jess Henderson is a awe-inspiring comedian, actor, and writer who is manifesting stardom into reality, but today they’re m ... Show More
1h 7m
Nov 2022
Calvin Cato Gets a Mobile Home Handy
Calvin Cato is a wonderful stand-up comedian who was named one of Time Out NY’s “Queer Comics of Color to Watch Out For,” but today he’s in the apartment to be named the gay sex king! We discuss having sex with van-lifers, banging in international waters, and the best methods to ... Show More
1h 8m
Oct 2022
Bailey Pope Will Stage-Manage Your Orgy
Bailey Pope is an absolutely killer comedian and trans woman who performs across the US, but today she’s in the apartment to perform some oral on the crew! In addition, gay virgin Maddie Wiener joins us once again, this time as our PERMANANT co-host. We discuss coming out as tran ... Show More
1h 4m
<p><span>***CONTENT WARNING: Mentions of discrimination towards gay people, hate speech, depression, suicide.***</span></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/alizakelly/" rel="nofollow">Aliza Kelly</a> connects with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/?hl=en" rel="nofol ... Show More
