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Jun 2020
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We're Having Gay Sex feat. Comedian Ashl...

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We're reunited in NYC (!!!) and discussing gay sex, rebranding scissoring, and unpacking the "ho phase" with comedian and friend Ashley Gavin. She tells us about getting out in the dating scene after years of long-term relationships, her experience as a "flipper" and dating straight women, challenges of meeting not-so-gay-friendly families, coming out struggles, codependency in relationships, and more. We're also sharing the funniest things our listeners have heard in the bedroom, providing tv and book recs, and discussing celeb breakups. Hope you enjoy!

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