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May 2022
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To see my Top 3 Reasons why you should try online therapy visit betterhelp.com/jaystop3

You deserve to invest in yourself, and BetterHelp is a great way to do that.

Go to betterhelp.com/jaystop3 and to get 10% off your first month of online therapy when you sign up. 

For this special series, in partnership with Betterhelp, Jay Shetty sits down with Haesue Jo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Head of Clinical Operations at BetterHelp and Ashley Carr. Ashley talks about her journey throughout therapy and how it has helped her become a better person that she is now. 

What We Discuss:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 04:12 How Ashley got into therapy and stigma around it
  • 07:37 Therapy is not just for the weak-minded
  • 08:58 Waking up everyday and feeling that you’re not enough
  • 10:39 Skills she learned in therapy
  • 14:07 Self-sabotage in return for love
  • 15:44 How we’re acting in the present stems from our childhood experiences
  • 17:14 Learning and understanding that we don’t need to accept the bad things that happens in our lives
  • 19:33 What her life would be like if she didn’t go to therapy
  • 21:05 Self-awareness is the first step
  • 24:09 Accepting yourself
  • 25:36 When did therapy become a choice
  • 27:04 Every question during therapy has intention
  • 29:33 Sometimes advice from our family or friends might not be the one we need
  • 36:06 Advice to others on why they should try therapy
  • 40:08 Depression symptoms
  • 41:36 How parents can handle their kid’s emotions
  • 46:49 Therapy is life-changing

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