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Apr 2019
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【弟子规】02父母呼,应勿缓。父母命,行勿懒

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【入则孝出则悌】
父母呼,应勿缓。
父母命,行勿懒。
父母教,须敬听。
父母责,须顺承。


【拼音版 】
fù mǔ hū ,yìng wù huǎn
父母呼,应勿缓
fù mǔ mìng ,xíng wù lǎn
父母命,行勿懒
fù mǔ jiào ,xū jìng tīng
父母教,须敬听
fù mǔ zé ,xū shùn chéng
父母责,须顺承


【参考译文】

父母亲叫你的时候,不能迟缓,要立刻答应。
父母亲指派你做事的时候,不能偷懒,要马上去做。
父母亲在教导你的时候,要恭敬地聆听。
父母亲的批评责备,必须顺从地接受。



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