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May 2020
12m 40s

Learning to Enjoy the Parenting Journey

FOCUS ON THE FAMILY
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If parenting is not what you expected, you are not alone. John and Danny discuss how parents can overcome the pressure to be perfect. Receive the book In This House, We Will Giggle with your gift of any amount!

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