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May 2022
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19. How to Negotiate with Confidence

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About this episode

There are two ways to better your financial situation in life –– make more or spend less. Both options mean you’re going to have to negotiate, so why are we so afraid of something that can help us so much? In this episode, money and career expert Tori Dunlap guides you through the steps to negotiating, whether it’s your salary, a freelance client, or even your day-to-day bills, that have helped other women negotiate thousands of dollars in raises and bonuses. 

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