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Apr 2022
7m 28s

What happened to you?

LATRICE RAINER
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“Understanding how the brain reacts to stress or early trauma helps clarify how what has happened to us in the past shapes who we are, how we behave, and why we do the things we do. -Dr. Bruce Perry https://linktr.ee/theselfloveplaybook Let’s Connect! ✨ Instagram: @iamlatricerainer 
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