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Sep 2023
53m 53s

How We Live With Contradictions

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode
Think about the last time you did something you knew was wrong. How did you explain your actions to yourself? All of us tell stories about why we do the things we do. We justify our failures, and come up with plausible explanations for our actions. This week, Elliot Aronson explains the mental processes behind this type of self-justification, and shares how ... Show More
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