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Mar 2021
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4 Reasons We Crave External Validation a...

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Every person on the planet wants to be understood. But sometimes what we do to feel understood leaves us feeling even more lonely.

On this episode of On Purpose with Jay Shetty, Jay Shetty explains the difference between seeking validation and wanting to be seen.

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