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Apr 2022
32m 42s

95. What’s So Bad About Denial?

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Can denial be a healthy way of dealing with the death of a loved one? What do the five stages of grief misrepresent about mourning? And why does Angie cover her eyes when she watches the Rocky movies? 
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