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Apr 2022
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Episode 544: No Contact Rule Pep Talk

LUCIA
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Whether you just started using the no contact rule or you've been in no contact for weeks or months, at some point you'll wonder if it's working and whether you should continue. Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives you a pep talk to keep you motivated to stay in no contact until you hear from your ex.
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