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Apr 2022
40m 59s

I am my own worst enemy

KATY BELLOTTE
About this episode
We all deserve to be treated well by others. But what's more important is to treat ourselves with love and respect. So in this episode of Thick & Thin, I admit that it's time to stop bullying myself with the constant pressure and grind to work. Because in the contest of "Who Can Be the Most Miserable?" none of us win.  // Follow me on IG: instagram.com/katy ... Show More
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