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Apr 2022
30m 41s

8 Relationship Red Flags To Never Avoid ...

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Anywhere we go, red flags are signs that we should always look out for. It can mean your safety is compromised. It can mean you are exposed to danger. Now, when it comes to relationships, it can also mean that you are with the wrong person, or worse, you are the wrong person in your current relationship.

In this episode of On Purpose, Jay Shetty narrates to us the noticeable signs that can tell us that the person we are building a future with may not be the one.

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Key Takeaways:

  • 00:00 Intro
  • 02:19 Red flags that you shouldn’t ignore
  • 05:35 Sign #1: When someone wants to fall in love too fast
  • 12:34 Sign #2: When you don’t take the time to investigate 
  • 13:19 Sign #3: When someone talks about their past relationships negatively and blame their partner
  • 17:26 Sign #4: They are without because they don’t like to be alone
  • 18:13 Sign #5: They are not great with managing conflict
  • 21:06 Sign #6: When someone is being touchy without your permission
  • 22:29 Sign #7: They make you feel bad for people being attracted to you
  • 26:24 Sign #8: When someone distorts reality to suit their narrative

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