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Mar 2022
42m 41s

How to Keep Anger from Getting the Best ...

AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION
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Anger is a normal human emotion, a natural reaction when you feel that something or someone has done you wrong. But anger can also turn violent and dangerous, can ruin relationships and can interfere with our health and happiness. Howard Kassinove, PhD, of Hofstra University, and Raymond “Chip” Tafrate, PhD, of Central Connecticut State University, discuss t ... Show More
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