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Mar 2022
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Episode 541: Is It Wrong To Do No Contac...

LUCIA
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Is the no contact rule manipulative?  Is it game playing? 
Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why it's not wrong to use the no contact rule to get an ex back.
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