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Jan 2022
54m 55s

Breaking up With Validation

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Breakups are hard, Friendship breakups are worse. Today we tackle losing A friend and seeking validation. A relationship is a two-way street, but how much longer can you invest in someone that isn't investing in you? This sudden pull away can cause insecurities and validation. Learning to love yourself as you are and accept that sometimes people just grow apart. No one person should be the source of your happiness. 


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