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Jul 2021
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#18: Do This and Start Accepting Complim...

Gloria Zhang, MA
About this episode

Do you ever feel embarrassed, awkward or uncomfortable receiving compliments? Ā To the point where you feel like it's not true or you don't deserve them? In today's episode, I'm going to talk about overcoming that and working on your inner self-worth, so that you can allow yourself to receive these gifts - to be seen, heard, honored and appreciated.

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Episode Highlights:

  • When you reject compliments, you're not really being "humble" but you're not allowing yourself to be appreciated and to feel that joy of receiving that gift
  • In a way, rejecting a compliment from a loved one might seem like gaslighting or invalidating that person's judgement or experience
  • Call to Action: Ask yourself, "How would my confident, self-loving future self react in these kinds of situations?" Challenge yourself for this week to expand yourself like a balloon - appreciate compliments and allow yourself to enjoy them!

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