logo
episode-header-image
Sep 2021
19m 38s

341 5 Signs Your Emotional Boundaries Ne...

TERRI COLE
About this episode

Do you ever feel responsible for the feelings of others? Do you overgive and overfunction? Do you suffer from chronic indecision? If any of those things resonate, today’s episode is for you. I am going to share with you five signs that your emotional boundaries need help.

 

Visit terricole.com/341 for more about today's episode.

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Up next
Jul 8
734 Are You an (Unintentional) Boundary Bully?
Do you find yourself saying "I don't want to hurt their feelings" while completely abandoning your own needs? You think you're being nice, but you're actually training people to ignore what matters to you—because you're ignoring it first. In this episode, I break down the hidden ... Show More
23m 11s
Jul 3
733 Attracting Love with Dating Coach Sabrina Zohar
I am so excited to have dating coach and podcast host Sabrina Zohar on the show to talk about dating, relational issues, and what a secure, emotionally safe relationship looks like. Sabrina shares the work that she did to get out of unhealthy relational patterns, how she navigate ... Show More
37m 8s
Jul 1
732 The Cost of People-Pleasing, Why We Do It + How to Stop
Do you say yes when you want to say no? Do you do more emotional labor in nearly all of your relationships? Are you the one everyone counts on, while no one is there for you? (Maybe you don’t even allow people to be there for you?) If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is ... Show More
22m 23s
Recommended Episodes
Oct 2024
Focus on Yourself: 3 Signs You’re Giving Too Much & What to Do About It Right Now
When was the last time you said "no" without feeling guilty? Or set a boundary and actually stuck to it? If you can’t remember, today’s episode is the wake-up call you need. Boundaries can protect your time, energy, and mental space, and yet for so many of us, boundaries are hard ... Show More
1h 10m
Apr 8
Ep #349: Committing to Feeling Your Emotions
Do you binge or overeat when you’re feeling an uncomfortable emotion? Eating will help you to escape it, numb it, or to feel better. But of course, not without consequence. So I want to encourage you to commit to feeling those emotions without eating. If you’ve tried to but haven ... Show More
9m 50s
Oct 2024
How to Be More Emotionally Available (And Why It’s So Important)
Do you or a loved one find it difficult to explore and discuss emotions? Do discussions about emotions often lead to fighting or outbursts? In today's video, Dr K. discusses what emotional availability is, how to cultivate it, and how to manifest it in a healthy way. Check out mo ... Show More
33m 55s
Jan 2025
BOUNDARIES: why you need them & how to set them | stop people pleasing & feeling guilty!
THIS EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY HINGE #hingepartner https://hin.ge/abetteryoubyfernanda LONG TIME NO EPISODE AH! my apologies!!!! happy 2025! in this episode we are talking all about the importance of BOUNDARIES!!! how to confidently/respectfully set them, why you need them, the di ... Show More
39m 24s
Dec 2022
441 Emotional Boundaries
Move forward and help yourself with "Emotional Boundaries". This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at BetterHelp.com/AFFIRMATION and get on your way to being your best self. Get 10% OFF your first month at BetterHelp.com/Affirmation The sister episode ... Show More
13m 23s
Mar 2025
If You’re Feeling Uncertain & Anxious, You Need to Hear This
Life is hard. Struggles are inevitable for you and for the people you love. But even when things feel overwhelming, there’s always something you can do. And in today’s episode, you’re getting a toolkit – a companion guide to all of life’s twists and turns. When life feels chaotic ... Show More
1h 21m
Sep 2024
Ep #320: How to Build Emotional Endurance
Do you eat as soon as you feel an uncomfortable emotion? Or do you feel it for awhile, but then decide you’re done with feeling and you eat to distract from it, numb it, or avoid it?   Now imagine that you were able to just feel the emotion, for as long as it was there, without e ... Show More
8m 29s
Jan 2018
Understanding Emotions & Habits
Episode 379 - Your emotions are not real, they are habits and patterns that you have developed along your lifetime. Don't believe me? Listen to today's episode! Reveal the hidden patterns shaping your choices, habits, and success. Take my FREE Identity Quiz to discover who you re ... Show More
7m 58s
Apr 2
How To Let People Feel Their Feelings
The concept of "letting people feel their feelings" may be confusing to some, however in this episode, Colter, Cayla and Lauren emphasize the importance of allowing others to experience emotions like anger, disappointment, or frustration without trying to fix, dismiss, or control ... Show More
47m 55s