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Mar 2019
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Treating Yourself The Way You Treat Othe...

JAMES BLUNDELL
About this episode
Double standards - but not quite as you know it! In this weeks confidence and self esteem podcast I be talking (in a weird croaky voice) about a common characteristic found in those with low confidence and self esteem. I noticed this a lot in myself after my wife died as well. It's the act of treating others better than how we treat ourselves.

In true Confidence and Self Esteem style; if you are looking to become more confident or have increased self esteem; you have to get slightly out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself and I'm no different when it comes to this. I'm certainly not prepared to hide behind some carefully edited recording! So as ALWAYS you get the raw (& on this occasion croaky voiced) - unedited version. Just like with all shows - I need your feedback. Let me know what you want me to talk about what you want to hear. Happy listening

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