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Jan 2019
13m 49s

Listener Q and A - split up with boyfrie...

JAMES BLUNDELL
About this episode
So when a listener asks a question - you gotta answer it!

Slightly different to my usual podcasts, but hey - you know that's not going to stop me! Answering questions about relationships is never easy as you only get one side of the story. But that doesn't mean it's any less deserving. Disclaimer - I contacted the listener and asked permission to turn this into a podcast.

In true Confidence and Self Esteem style; if you are looking to become more confident or have increased self esteem; you have to get slightly out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself and I'm no different when it comes to this. I'm certainly not prepared to hide behind some carefully edited recording! So as ALWAYS you get the raw - unedited version. Just like with all shows - I need your feedback. Let me know what you want me to talk about what you want to hear. Happy listening

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