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Nov 2021
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Little Happier: In a Public Restroom, Wh...

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project
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A woman told me her clever system for choosing the least-used stall in a public restroom, which reminded me that we’re more alike, and more different, than we imagine—because her system for outwitting the public is the same system that everyone else uses, too.

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