No matter what method of parenting we choose to follow, there will be judgment from someone, somewhere. It is hard enough to parent as is, but that judgment can leave us feeling very alone and full of self doubt. We're talking about all the ways we manage to leave the judgment aside and move forward using peaceful techniques despite the critics. Please ra ... Show More
Today
Why Calling Your Kid "Difficult" Changes Who They Become
Somewhere along the way, maybe out loud, maybe just in your own head, you started calling one of your children the difficult one. The intense one. The spirited one. The one with the issues. And you love them, of course you do. But quietly, where no one can see, you have wondered ... Show More
18m 38s
Jun 9
The Manipulation Myth: What's Really Happening When Your Kid Acts Out
I had been told the same story since I became a mom: “children are manipulative”, “They do that on purpose”. I believed it. I bargained and threatened, my daughter melted down harder, and the wall between us got higher. I had been told kids push their parents because they want th ... Show More
14m 48s
Jul 2019
Learning Through Social Struggles with Our Support
A parent wants to give her toddler the freedom to work out struggles with other kids, but because of their busy urban environment, parent and child tend to be in close quarters. She says of her son and his playmates: “They look right at us expecting, needing, wanting our help.” T ... Show More
24m 16s
May 2023
Step Up Your Game: Navigating the Drama of Step-Parenting Like a Boss
In this episode of "Divorced not Dead", we delve into the challenging role of step-parenting and the importance of finding balance and acceptance with Jaime Scrimgeour. As a step-parent, it's crucial to navigate the relationships with both the children and the ex-spouse, all whil ... Show More
42m 59s
Dec 2020
Embracing Our Power to Be Confident Leaders (a Pep-Talk for Parents)
Janet shares what she describes as her most valuable advice for parents -- a mindset that brings clarity to our role in our children's lives, makes our job more enjoyable and successful, and may even offer us personal growth. Janet explains why and how this perspective works, off ... Show More
26m 25s