We all want to know what it's like to feel worthy and chosen in love. In this episode of Thick & Thin, I reveal my true birthday wish and ponder over my past relationships to discover a repeating pattern.
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May 2023
The dangers of future-tripping (Encore episode)
Cheers to the present! We will never be able to tell the future, so why spend the energy worrying about it? In this episode of Thick & Thin, my goal is to stop wasting my time trying to control the narrative, but sometimes the anticipatory anxiety and endless what-ifs, win. Thank ... Show More
33m 37s
May 2025
176. The Attachment Cycle Explained (Why We're Attracted to People Who End Up Hurting Us)
In this episode, I’m diving into why we keep getting drawn to the same types of partners, even when those relationships don't work out or we keep getting hurt. I’ll break down the psychology behind attraction, how our early experiences and attachment styles play a huge role, and ... Show More
33m 23s
Dec 2024
History of the Self: Love
How did love – this thing that's supposed to be beautiful, magical, transformative – turn into a neverending slog? We went searching for answers, and we found them in surprising places. On today's show: a time-hopping, philosophical journey into the origins of modern love. (This ... Show More
53m 7s
Jun 2023
501 - Why do we keep finding the "wrong" people? (law of attraction)
<p>In this episode, I talk about why I say "we find comfort in the familiarity of someone else's problematic truth, because deep down it is also our truth." I talk about the law of attraction, repeating cycles, and why one person can't have abandoned themselves in a relationship. ... Show More
17m 33s
Jun 2023
Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...(Part 2)
<p>What's your most repeated dating mistake? Sometimes it takes looking back in our past relationships to notice the patterns that have reoccurred several times, or choices we've made over and over again. Following on from last week's episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson ... Show More
44m 55s
Jul 2025
How to Break the Cycle & STOP Chasing the WRONG Person | Matt Monday
Why do we keep crashing into the same walls in love? In this conversation with Chris Williamson on his Modern Wisdom podcast, we explore the patterns that keep us stuck—whether it’s chasing unavailable partners, mistaking chaos for passion, or repeating cycles that leave us unful ... Show More
17m 19s
Jun 2023
Responding To YOUR Biggest Dating Mistakes...
<p>Have you noticed a recurring pattern in your dating life? Or have you maybe repeated certain mistakes in relationships that you can't seem to stop doing? In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey respond to YOUR replies on your repeated dating struggles and talk ab ... Show More
34m 45s
Aug 2025
“I’ve Always Been Dumped”
A listener asks: is dating someone fresh out of a six-year relationship a red flag… or just real life? Kat and Latisha dive into emotional timelines, what really counts as a “rebound,” and why breakups aren’t always what they seem. Plus, Lastisha opens up about her own dating his ... Show More
7 m