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Oct 2021
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CINDY HOVINGTON, PH.D.
About this episode

In today’s episode, we chat with Ashleigh, a new mom that struggled with connecting with her baby. She walks us through her difficult pregnancy and sheds light on how we can support our partners and our friends after they had a baby. Please note that this episode may have some triggers for parents that experienced a difficult pregnancy or who struggled with bonding with their baby.

Share your experience with us in the comments below or thank our guests for helping all of us feel less alone in our parenting journey.

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