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Dec 2017
49m 46s

Season 5 Episode 13: 1000 divorces

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick
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Erik from Together Guide tells us about what keeps couples together and what brings them apart – from the perspective of a former divorce lawyer. We discuss marriage, reasons for divorce, the phases of relationships, and why conflict isn't always a bad thing.

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