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Sep 2021
23 m

How Do I Change Someone?

The Angry Therapist
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In this episode, John answers a question he's most commonly asked: how do I change someone? Roughly ten minutes of self help in a shot glass. If you're looking for a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place. Marriage family therapist and best selling author, John Kim, shares his life and love revelations as well as insights from his sessions. He pulls the ... Show More
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