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Sep 2021
49m 56s

Where Happiness Hides

Hidden Brain, Shankar Vedantam
About this episode

We all think we know what will make us happy: more money. A better job. Love. But psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky says happiness doesn't necessarily work like that. This week, we explore why happiness often slips through our fingers, and how to savor — and stretch out — our joys.

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