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Aug 2021
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Some people just like to put you down an...

PAUL COLAIANNI
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The relentless pursuit of power over you is where some people are in your life. They come at you, offend you, insult you, and expect you to do what they want. It's easy to dismiss when they're strangers. But what about if they're family? Is there a way to interact with them and keep your power? 
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