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Aug 2019
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Hosted by Heather Chauvin | Insights inspired by Mel Robbins, Bréne Brown,
About this episode

"Children need models rather than critics."  — Joseph Joubert

 

In this episode, I talk about:

  • How to get the tools to help your kids 
  • Why it's important for you to do hard things
  • How to do the inner work to help your children

 

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