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May 2019

23m 35s

432: Throwback: I Hate You! Has Your Chi...

Hosted by Heather Chauvin | Insights inspired by Mel Robbins, Bréne Brown,

About this episode

“If you have never been hated by your child, you have never been a parent.” –Bette Davis

In this episode, I talk about:

Red, Green and Yellow Zones. Do you know what they are?
Using RGY Zones to attempt to understand your child's behavior
My parenting journey and how I handle these moments
The cause of your REACTION and how you can condition yourself to react with compassion

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